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Showing posts with label AltAttractions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label AltAttractions. Show all posts

Sunday, December 20, 2015

Discover your Partner’s Hidden Sexual Fantasies. Check it out and take the test. @ mojo upgrade

"Mojo Upgrade is an interactive sex questionnaire for couples to help them discover the fantasies that they might both enjoy together.
 Mojo Upgrade is an interactive sex questionnaire for couples. We present a list of sexual fantasies to both partners separately and have them indicate their level of interest. After the couple has finished the survey, we compare the answers. If you both gave a positive response to an activity, then we'll share it; if not, we don’t. That way if your partner is not game to watch midget porn with you, they won't know.

The questionnaire only takes about 10 minutes per partner.

Best of all, it's free (as in beer) and you don't even have to register. Get your partner, and get started. "

Check it out and take the test.

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Can you be both hypersexual and asexual ?

"Can you be both hypersexual and asexual ? I usually deal with my libido/urges solo by either watching lots of porn or daydreaming excessively, though im not attracted to those i watch. i more concerned withe themes involved.enjoy partnered sex but I never seek it out, it's usually offered to me. I just don't experience sexual attraction ever. I'm asking because some think you can't be both hypersexual and asexual .

theasexualityblog theasexualityblog said:
Yes, you can. Libido is separate from sexual attraction, and since sexual orientation is based on attraction and not libido, it is possible to be hypersexual and asexual. :)"


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Friday, February 20, 2015

"Tap to discover your true sexuality" from Portlandia

Made me laugh, satire based on how many different types of orientation and attractions there are.
Great parody



Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Why are we shamed for something so natural by WLI (updated march 2015)




Food and sex have both been a structure of all mankind and the basis of life since the beginning of time.  No one should have the power of deciding  how much is “good, “ and what amount is “bad.” Especially when it is normal and substantial to life. Without sex no one would be here, without food we would die. Why are people shamed by society and made to feel inferior for eating or performing sex acts with a partner. Who determines how much sex or food is “too much.” Of course we need a certain amount of calories to live and so our body can function, but who determines how much  sex is “not enough” for a person. Just because some person in a lab coat pulls a magic number from a hat, should not make that number written in stone for everyone. Food is its own “sex” and should not be treated as anything different. Both are needed to fuel the body,and both are wanted as a leisure.Food can  be described as very sexual, but it seems food has its own term. Lets use the term....”foodual,” to describe the amazing-ness of food. Similar to “sex”ual, except with food as it seems food is just as much a turn on as sex is.


Religious/ spiritual

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Sexuality as a Spectrum The Area Between....

"Sexuality is a spectrum and between asexuality (lacking sexual attraction) and other common
orientations (with average or expected levels or frequency of sexual attraction) there is an area
that people may fall into where they are not asexual but they feel dissociated from the rest of
society.
This is known as the grey area and is most well known in the asexual community. The feeling of
being different from others prompts people in the grey area to associate with others who feel
similarly abnormal in society or they relate to asexuality since their own sexual nature is closest to
this than to any other.
As a result of inclusion into the asexual community, people who fall into this area usually identify
as “grey asexual” or simply “grey-a”. They may associate with this for several reasons,
including

Friday, January 16, 2015

Check out Playground Conference

"Playground brings together the brightest minds in sexuality education, activism, and media to examine the ways in which the sexual and erotic play a part in our everyday lives. Everyone is invited to attend from those looking to educate to those looking for education. And most importantly, those looking to have FUN!

We offer panel discussions, intimate workshops, and presentations. Meet our sexy vendors and exhibitors all weekend long, and join us for fun social activities including a sexy talent show, movie night, & games. Our Friday night opening keynote interview with author Kaleigh Trace, is open to the public for free. Stop by and check out the event on us! Dr. Jessica O’Reilly kicks off the conference as our opening plenary on Saturday.

It’s our mission to create a fun, safe(r), welcome, and inclusive space. Our community is open, whether you’re a veteran of sexuality based events or a first-timer looking for a new place to call home. Playground is where people of all genders, sexualities, races, and backgrounds can come together to learn from and share with each other. Join us!"

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Kimchi Cuddles # 247 Pants-on-cuddles

Sunday, December 28, 2014

Food Lover Spectrum/Chart

Some people choose to not each much even though they enjoy food the same way people choose to abstain from sex and be celibate although they enjoy sex. 

Take on this :The (sexually) openness spectrum

Inspired by my How Sex and Food are similar post (link after I get done with article and delete this sentence)
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Just a side note:


Side note:Weight/Calorie Watchers: 
This can be compared to how people masturbate (I will use masturbation as an example) instead of going out and having sex. They love and enjoy sex, but do not want to have it with others. Some people go as far as having sex dolls.

As using Asexuality and Polygamy as an excuse to hide and replace actual problems,fear of sex, can be an excuse to stay away from sex due to being raped, fear of intimacy (different from just not wanting intimacy or avoiding intimacy due to wanting to "have fun",low sex drive) this should not replace or be used as an excuse to replace certain disorders or medical reasons why a person does not love/dislike food (Anorexia, Prader-Willi syndrome (not binge eating disorder- that is binge eating to an extreme)



Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Who is Gayle Rubin?

""Gayle S. Rubin (born 1949) is an American cultural anthropologist best known as an activist and theorist of sex and gender politics. She has written on a range of subjects including feminism, sadomasochism, prostitution, pedophilia, pornography and lesbian literature, as well as anthropological studies and histories of sexual subcultures, especially focused in urban contexts. She is an Associate Professor of Anthropology and Women's Studies at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor.
The Traffic in Women: Notes on the 'Political Economy' of Sex"
In this essay, Rubin discussed the trafficking of women, which she believes results from the "sex/gender system," a phrase she originated, meaning "the set of arrangements by which a society transforms biological sexuality into products of human activity, and in which these transformed sexual needs are satisfied." She takes as a starting point writers who have previously discussed gender and sexual relations as an economic institution (Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels) which serves a conventional social function (Claude Lévi-Strauss) and is reproduced in the psychology of children (Sigmund Freud and Jacques Lacan). She asserts that these writers fail to adequately explain women's subjugation; therefore, Rubin offers a reinterpretation of their ideas. Rubin addresses Marxist thought by identifying women’s role within a capitalist society.[9] She argues that the reproduction of labor power depends upon women’s housework to transform commodities into sustenance for the worker. A capitalistic system cannot generate surplus without women, yet society does not grant women access to the resulting capital.

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

A bromance and a squish are equal or are different?

"Anonymous said: A bromance and a squish are equal or are different?
A bromance is a close but non-sexual relationship between two or more men. It’s more than just friends though, it’s like a special bond.
A squish is the same sort of feeling, but it’s usually the non-sexual and non-romantic equivalent of a crush."

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The (sexually) openness spectrum

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