Two Benefits of Erotic Admiration

"Why is erotic admiration valuable? Because being on the receiving end of erotic admiration is beneficial. Ronald E. Riggio has written about the benefits of being the recipient of sexual interest. In "How Men Increase Women's Sexual Attractiveness" he summarizes a study that shows that women who are being interacted with in ways that convey that men find them attractive display more poise and warmth. Perhaps this "Pygmalion Effect" also works on men who receive erotic admiration.

A second benefit of erotic admiration is that it allows men and women to be friends without trying to be asexual. Erotic admiration prevents inter-gender friendships from morphing into romantic entanglements without the friends pretending to be genderless."
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Carmen Electra's Aerobic Striptease

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Body Worship: Sensuality, Nonsexual Eros, and Asexual Love

"I’m interested in exploring body worship as a celibate asexual: a kind of highly sensual touching that focuses on the whole body, while avoiding stimulation of the genitals altogether. Body worship not as a phase of a sexual encounter or a kind of foreplay leading up to genital orgasm but as its own bottom line, as the intimate experience.

What I have in mind for myself and my fellow asexual partner(s) is to spend time in bed together, clothed only in our underwear or maybe in our underwear and t-shirts, and caress each other, stroke, massage, kiss each other’s body wherever we like for however long we want, focusing our attention on the other’s body in its fullness—the way it looks, the way it feels, the way it smells, and the desire/love/adoration each of us feels for the other’s. I could spend twenty minutes on my partner’s back, for example: just looking at it, touching it, smelling the skin, kissing it lightly, admiring its every beautiful feature, etc. "

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Kinbaku' & Shibari

Kinbaku (緊縛?) means 'tight binding' Kinbaku-bi (緊縛美?) which literally means 'the beauty of tight binding'. Kinbaku is a Japanese style of bondage or BDSM which involves tying up the bottom using simple yet visually intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of thin rope (often jute, hemp or linen and generally around 6 mm in diameter, but sometimes as small as 4mm, and between 7–8m long). In Japanese, this natural-fibre rope is known as 'asanawa'; the Japanese vocabulary does not make a distinction between hemp and jute. The allusion is to the use of hemp rope for restraining prisoners, as a symbol of power, in the same way that stocks or manacles are used in a Western BDSM context. The word shibari came into common use in the West at some point in the 1990s to describe the bondage art Kinbaku.

Shibari (縛り?) is a Japanese word that literally means "to tie" or "to bind".....

'Kinbaku' vs. 'Shibari'

There is much discussion about the distinction between shibari and kinbaku, and whether one term is more appropriate than another.

One modern distinction which is gaining popularity is that shibari refers to purely artistic, aesthetic rope, whilst kinbaku refers to the artistic, connective, sensual, sexual practice as a whole."
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"Shibari is the Japanese-inspired art of tying a subject to not only immobilize them, but to do so elegantly and beautifully - creating an intimate and erotic experience for both the subject and the person tying."

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