"I’m interested in exploring body worship as a celibate asexual: a kind of highly sensual touching that focuses on the whole body, while avoiding stimulation of the genitals altogether. Body worship not as a phase of a sexual encounter or a kind of foreplay leading up to genital orgasm but as its own bottom line, as the intimate experience.
What I have in mind for myself and my fellow asexual partner(s) is to spend time in bed together, clothed only in our underwear or maybe in our underwear and t-shirts, and caress each other, stroke, massage, kiss each other’s body wherever we like for however long we want, focusing our attention on the other’s body in its fullness—the way it looks, the way it feels, the way it smells, and the desire/love/adoration each of us feels for the other’s. I could spend twenty minutes on my partner’s back, for example: just looking at it, touching it, smelling the skin, kissing it lightly, admiring its every beautiful feature, etc. "
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