Sex and Food Oppression...Chakra edition updated feb.2015
Dieting vs Sexual Abstinence by WLI
Chunkealthy Life
Calm Mind Open Heart
Sex & Food @ Trello
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Food Lover Spectrum/Chart:
Sexuality as a Spectrum The Area Between....
Restriction/ Not always indulging as much as others
Sexual Abstinance : "Abstinence is not having sex. A person who decides to practice abstinence has decided not to have sex."
@Planned Parenthood@KidsHealth
@University of California Santa Cruz
Celibacy
Celibacy - Religious reasonCelibacy category @ my blog, Woah Lotta Info
Asexuality
Grey-A/Gray-A
Demisexual
- confessions of a demisexual
- Demisexual @ AVEN
- Clarification of Demisexuality and Gray-Asexuality
- What is Demisexuality? @ Demisexuality (dot) org
- In Defense of Demisexuality
- ASEXUAL VS DEMISEXUAL by GirlfriendsTV
- I'm Demisexual -- Here's What That Means
Monogamous:
Avoidant Attachment Style :(nothing wrong with this, as long as you know yourself well enough to be open about it. Don't get into a relationship knowing that the person gets attached easily and you don't. if you do, be honest and open about it.)
- Some information @ Calm Mind Open Heart
- TYPE: DISMISSIVE-AVOIDANT
- Top Ten Signs Your Partner is Avoidant
- What is Your Attachment Style?
- The Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style
- Understanding The Avoidant Personality
- Avoidant Attachment Characteristics
- Relationship Attachment Style (Part 2): Insecure Avoidant Attachment Pattern
- ADDICTION TO "ALONE TIME" ‐‐ AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT, NARCISSISM, AND A ONE‐PERSON PSYCHOLOGY WITHIN A TWO‐PERSON PSYCHOLOGICAL SYSTEM
Dieting/Watching calorie intake - Restricting food to stay a certain weight or to lose weight to be a lower weight and size. According to Google it is "a special course of food to which one restricts oneself, either to lose weight or for medical reasons."
- Abstaining from food to lose/ maintaining weight.
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Indulging
Sex: Sex positive movement:
- Sex-positive movement @ Wikipedia
- What I Mean When I Say I'm Sex-Positive.
- Sex Positivity @ Charlie Glickman, PDH
- 8 WAYS TO BE POSITIVE YOU’RE SEX POSITIVE
- Sex Positivity @ WGAC
- What Does "Sex Positive" Mean, Anyway?
- CSPC
- The (sexually) openness spectrum:
Poly-
Anxious Attachment:(nothing wrong with this, as long as you know yourself well enough to be open about it. If your partner wants freedom, and you want them to stay home be open and come to an equal compromise)
- Why Clingy Partners Cling
- TYPE: ANXIOUS-PREOCCUPIED @ Jeb Kinnison
- Understanding Anxious Attachment — Part 1: Ambivalent/Anxious Attachment
- UNDERSTANDING THE NEEDS OF THE ANXIOUS/PREOCCUPIED ATTACHMENT STYLE
Food:
Binge eating
- Stop feeling guilty about binge eating
- Chunkealthy Life my website with healthy eating recipes, fat acceptance articles, etc.
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Pressure/Peer pressure/Shaming
- Some people feel they have to because their friends are. No,you don't
- Why are we shamed for something so natural -link to blog post
To have sex:
- Helping Teens Resist Sexual Pressure
- DEALING WITH THE PRESSURE TO HAVE SEX
- Dealing With Pressure To Have Sex @ GirlsHealth
- Are You Being Pressured Into Having Sex?
- Sexual Pressures @ 4 College Women
- How can I deal with the pressure to have sex?
- Dealing with sexual pressure
- How to Deal with the Pressure to Have Sex
To not have sex/or be a "slut"
- I AM DAMAGED GOODS. By Sarah Bessey
- The Damaging Effects of Shame-Based Sex Education: Lessons From Elizabeth Smart
- Sex, Religion, and Shame
- Why Do So Many Religions Shame Sex? 12 Ways To Get Free
- Healing Sexual Shame
- SEXUAL SHAME @ Post Masculine
- Male Shame, the Root of Female Shame
- The Politics of Sexual Shaming: Religion and Abstinence
- Using the restroom is not a crime
- Alice:
Eating/weight
To diet:
- Tell them you are not interested in dieting and you like to eat.
- That is thin shaming. Tell them you like your weight and don't want to change your eating habits
- Visit Love & Lust 13:4-7 to see fat shaming resources to help shut up your peers. Yes, fat people can be healthy and sexy so tell your peers to shush. Gives resources to help you stop others from body / food policing
- In praise of appetites - from Fat!So?
- Examining 12 ‘Good Fatty’ Archetypes We Depend On from Everyday Feminism
To eat more (unless you have anorexia, or bulimia- as long as you are eating your daily caloric intake you don't need to listen to people who try to get you to eat more)
- That is thin shaming. Tell them you like your weight and don't want to change your eating habits
- Visit Love & Lust 13:4-7 to see thin shaming resources to help shut up your peers.Yes, thin people can be healthy and not all are anorexic so tell your peers to shush.Gives resources to help you stop others from body / food policing
- What gluttony really means...
- Gluttony by The Zenful Kitchen
- Orthorexia is now a thing. Eating healthy is now an eating disorder. Seems like they need to always control everything you do. If you don't pump your body full of hazardous chemicals, how will they profit from the diseases those chemicals cause?