"When entering a new relationship, take your time to become an anthropologist. An anthropologist studies the behaviour of the person in their culture in order to understand them. The job is not to change anything, but just observe. When you meet people, just observe the person to find out what kind of personality they have, you don’t have to judge them or change them; just know what you are dealing with. Watch how the person treats others in the course of the time spent with you, because if they act uncaring with others, that is a very good indicator of how they are likely to treat you later on.
Read the full article at Recognize Narcissistic Traits Before It Is Too Late by Christine Louis de Canonville, on The Roadshow for Therapists at http://narcissisticbehavior.net/category/recognizing-narcissistic-traits-before-it-is-too-late/
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