Connect / be attractive/have attraction to someone on each level:Emotionally, Sexually, Practically ,etc. resource list by WLI

Also See
How to grow... intellectually, emotionally, artistic, or spiritually - resource list by WLI


Emotionally
Calm Mind Open Heart
CMOH relationship page
Interpersonal Communications @ Woah  Lotta Info/Calm Mind OpenHeart
IQ category @ WLI (includes Learning skills, communication skills,etc.)
Emotional IQ @ CalmMind Open Heart
Emotions we feel @ Calm Mind Open Heart
CBT/DBT/Etc. @ Calm Mind Open Heart
Body Intelligence @ Calm Mind Open Heart
Communication/Listening/Emotional IQSkills @ Calm Mind Open Heart

sexually
CMOH relationship page
CMOH sacred sex page
Superstar harlot sex page

Intellectually
WLI Blog - Learn and educate yourself
The Heart Sutra - wisdom

Spiritually
Sacred sex - CMOH
Calm Mind Open Heart


Physically/Aesthetically 
This doesn't mean you have to be thin or muscular.. this means work out, keep yourself healthy by eating healthy (doesn't need to be less), stay active throughout the day, have good hygiene, trim your body hair (if you like having leg hair or armpit hair- trim it.)  , keep your skin and nails nice.


Sensually (touching, kissing, caressing, cuddling, voice, etc.)
Cuddle Slut @ Calm Mind Open Heart
Love,Sex,Relationships @ CalmMind Open Heart
Seduction @ CalmMindOpen Heart

Practical
Some random tips of mine for good relationships 
Fight With Love category @ Calm Mind Open Heart
Know your/your partner's communication style
Relationship advice: What to change, how to change it, how to compromise - chart and written by me.
Organizational tips
Time management skills
Home Ec category @ WLI

Romantic attraction
When you just "feel" it with someone.
Pheromones
Aphrodisiacs,Entactogens, lovey-dovey drugs @ Calm Mind Open Heart 
Lovey Dovey Stuff @ Superstar Harlot

Humor/funny 

The six types of Love: Physical, Sexual, Emotional, Intellectual, Practical and Spiritual
Types of Attraction by Victrix @ Reflective Ace