"Have fun
One thing my friend got right was to have fun—and let the lucky gentleman receiving your attentions know it.
Our society puts a lot of emphasis on the penis—it’s a Big Bad Hard Rod, it’s a symbol of power (Washington Monument, anyone?), it’s a man’s precious ‘jewels’—so it’s no wonder that the inexperienced often find it intimidating. If you’re going to enjoy your partner’s penis and give it pleasure, though, you’ve got to get over that. You need to make friends with the penis. That’s what foreplay is all about. So take your time—play with it, stroke it, see how he reacts when you touch it a certain way. Watch how it perks up and changes as it becomes erect. Lick it, smell it, give it a funny name. Get comfortable with this key part of your boy’s body.
Here’s the thing—no matter what you heard from your aunt, your minister, or whoever warped your mind about this stuff when you were younger, the blowjob isn’t supposed to be a chore. It’s supposed to be about pleasure. Of course it’s about pleasuring the recipient, but both of you should be having a good time. Think about the last time someone went down on you—did they roll their eyes and sigh before heading downtown, or were they moaning with pleasure at the thought of sexy, tasty you? Which one do you think is more fun? So relax, approach this as a tasty treat (like an ice cream cone!) and let your partner know, through sounds and touch, that you’re into it. And if you’re not into it, don’t do it."
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