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Monday, November 3, 2014

Casual relationship types and differences by WLI (updated jan 2016 )

This is really making me mad how people do not know the difference...

FWB - FWB stands for Friends With Benefits; therefore, it means friends you sleep with. Maybe you two have been friends since birth and he showed you his pee-pee. Or maybe it's someone you have been friends with for a while and feel safe having sex with this person. Maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend broke up with you and you went to your bestie to talk and you guys were horny and slept together and liked it so now you do it if you're bored and the movie you are watching sucks. You guys hang out, love each other and are there for each other emotionally. You'll go over and chill with each others friends,etc. You would ask this person what they thought of your new date. You would smash someone's face in if they hurt them. it's called FRIENDS with benefits for a reason.
Booty call - some chick or dude you probably met at the bar or fb. You call her or him up ONLY to have sex. You two don't hang out, or talk about how you plan to go to college and start your own business. In fact, you don't really care about their life story because they are disposable and you both know it is not going to last long. They are pretty much a free hooker and it's usually short-term.Probably started out as a one-night stand,but they were REALLY good so you got their number for another good time.

One Night Stand - Some person you meet at the bar and you both decide to have some hot sex. It was one time and you don't decide to see each other again. If you do, you say hi but don't screw again because you already had that once before. Been there, done that, time for new peeps to have sew with.

Fling - More than a one night stand and booty call,but less of a relationship but more (however, not as serious as a FWB-since friends are for life) than a friendship. Usually like a long-term relationship, but without the long term commitment. 
A lay at the bar is not a fwb, it would be a one night stand. If you both decide it was so good you want to have it regularly it then becomes a booty call. If you hang out and talk about your likes, dislikes, future plans in school, etc. you are becoming friends and it then turns into an fwb. A fwb can not be a bootycall as you two are actually friends, you both have just decided to add something extra to the mix.

F*ckship:
"Two people engaging in purly sexual activities with no intentions of being friends." - Urban Dictionary

and...
20-Somethings Have Invented a New Relationship Status, and It's Called "Dating Partner"


Whichever one you borh choose, make sure it is agreed open between both parties so no one gets hurt.