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Saturday, September 20, 2014

5 Ways You're Accidentally Making Everyone Hate You

"Have you recently had friends, co-workers, or strangers suddenly get pissed off at you for what seemed like no reason at all? Maybe you told yourself that they were overreacting or being too sensitive, or that they had no right to be angry when you clearly didn't mean to do whatever you did (and in fact aren't even sure what it was). If you're a socially inept type like me, I bet you've had this happen within the last month.

Well, I'm here to help. Fortunately, I am the nation's foremost expert on social missteps, with more than 30 years of experience in the field (some of you know me as the best-selling author of I Couldn't Help But Notice Your Father's Corpse Had a Boner: The Psychology of the Socially Awkward Man, MacMillan, 2008), and I have found that the answer to "Why is everyone suddenly mad at me?" is usually one of the following.

Hint: It's almost always about power.....
#5. It's Not What You Said, It's What You Didn't Say
#4. You Accidentally Asserted Power Over Them
#3. They Think You Owe Them
#2. You Wasted Their Time
#1. You Assumed That Because You Were OK With a Situation, Everybody Was"

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