Note: If you are TRYING to lose weight this is a great video as to why some people use weight as a way to push people away and once a person realizes he or she deserves good things they can then start to diet and lose weight (this does not apply to everyone, just some people. This is not to fat-shame or body shame at all, just provided if you are TRYING to lose weight and another insight as to why some people's diets fail). If you are not trying to lose weight, that is okay, too!