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Monday, May 26, 2014

18 Insightful Reasons Why You Don’t Have Any Friends

"Feeling ignored by friends can be one of the worst things to experience, but what’s worse is when your friends are ignoring you and no one even seems to be subtle about it.

So are you such a bad person that no one wants to be around you anymore?

Or are you making a few unforgivable mistakes that push people away from you, or force them to take you for granted?

#1 You try too hard. And it shows!
#2 You’re too negative
#3 You have a hard time picking social cues
#4 You’re a selfish person.
#5 You read between the lines.
#6 You whine all the time!!
#7 You create psychological barriers.
#8 You’re a boring conversationalist.
#9 You drain your friend’s energy.
#10 You’re in the wrong crowd.
#11 You’re right. You always are.



#12 You forget your friends when you don’t need them.
#13 You’re insecure and jealous.
#14 You’ve jumped or dropped a social status.
#15 You’re an introvert.
#16 You’re fake!
#17 You’re too demanding.
#18 You’re not making the effort.

Look, if you don’t have friends, it’s not always your fault. You need to remember that. If someone doesn’t want to be your friend, you have a choice to walk away too. There’s no reason for you to cling on to someone who clearly doesn’t think of you as a priority. You’d only make yourself look like an idiot for trying to grasp on to someone who’s twisting your fingers away to run away from you."

See entire article describing why you can't make friends