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Monday, April 14, 2014

Is complaining keeping you single?

1. Complaining is sending a sure fire signal to the Universe that says….More of this please. Seriously, is that what you want? Your voice is made of vibrational energy. Your words are echoing your thoughts and feelings into the ethers. I’ve said it before and I will say it again…Guard your mouth and measure the words you speak carefully.

2. Complaining drains your positivity. In the desert it is crucial that you conserve your resources. Every drop is precious. Start practicing this phrase: “I used to complain about not having money, a job, a lover, you name it but now I choose to see my situation as temporary and changeable.”

3. Complaining makes it impossible to be grateful. Gratitude is the oasis in the desert. Sure you are struggling, I am not making light of that but I guarantee you there is something you can be grateful for. I have a colleague whose desert was rectal cancer. She told me there were times all she could feel grateful for was her big toe. She would thank it for its years of service to her. There is always something to be grateful for.

4. Complaining blinds you. Sometimes there are mirages in the desert that can fool you or pull you into quick sand that will overcome you. When you are positive and accepting of your surroundings you can make a strategic plan and find your direction. Close your mouth and open your heart. Spirit is right there waiting for you to seek its guidance.

5. Complaining blocks you from your God-given Spiritual guidance. You have an inner GPS just waiting for you to plug in your current location. When you complain, it is like unplugging the GPS and throwing it out the window. No wonder you feel so lost!

Lastly, here’s a little secret. People are sick of hearing about it. You have friends, family and colleagues who love you and want to support you, but, if all you do is piss and moan about your life, they will slowly and steadily pull away from you.

Everyone has something challenging they are facing. Your acceptance of your current situation with grace and patience opens you to love and support"

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