#1 Surprising Reason Men Said They Chose Their Wife

"Kind… nice… thoughtful… Hmmm. Was it really that simple?  Do men actually want to marry “bitches” or women who “play it cool,” as I’ve read in some popular advice books? Or do they really, deep down, just want someone nice? Here’s my theory about all the stories men remembered: it’s basically “like attracts like.” The guy looking for a truly nice woman understands the importance of kindness, and is most likely a nice person himself.

Of course, there will be individual exceptions, but from what I’ve seen, the guys who stand the test of time-the ones who make the best husbands and continue treating you with respect after “I do”-are impressed during the dating phase by a nice person.  The word “nice” gets a bad rap in our society today: I think it is often synonymous with “boring” (which was my own initial assumption!). But from my research, I can assure you that marriage-minded men sit up and take notice of women who display kindness before any other trait."

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