1.Value yourself more as a woman. Know how much of a great person you are, and know your self worth! Bernardo states that although many women know about this, they do not do it. If you truly believe you are beautiful and you have real confidence it iwll not come off as cocky or annoying. The man will see your self worth and (since you like him) love the fact an amazing, beautiful woman likes him back.
2.Invite him into your world, but do not let your world revolve around him. Show him your hobbies and interests. DO not ignore him and don't play game, but also do not drop everything you are doing for him. Set a balance, let him come with you to group hangout, let him read with you when you are reading your college book.
3.Redefine dating. Go other things besides going out to dinner. Maybe a group setting?
4. Allow him to feel like a man. Let him hold the door for you, let him pay for you.Allow him to "help" you even if sometimes you don't really need it. Let him make (some) decisions. Let him surprise you as to where you are going for the date.