Secrets Of The Sexes (3/3 Love)
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Monday, December 21, 2015
Secrets Of The Sexes (documentary)
Secrets Of The Sexes (1/3 Brainsex)
Secrets Of The Sexes (2/3 Attraction)
Secrets Of The Sexes (3/3 Love)
Secrets Of The Sexes (3/3 Love)
Sunday, December 20, 2015
Discover your Partner’s Hidden Sexual Fantasies. Check it out and take the test. @ mojo upgrade
"Mojo Upgrade is an interactive sex questionnaire for couples to help them discover the fantasies that they might both enjoy together.
Mojo Upgrade is an interactive sex questionnaire for couples. We present a list of sexual fantasies to both partners separately and have them indicate their level of interest. After the couple has finished the survey, we compare the answers. If you both gave a positive response to an activity, then we'll share it; if not, we don’t. That way if your partner is not game to watch midget porn with you, they won't know.
The questionnaire only takes about 10 minutes per partner.
Best of all, it's free (as in beer) and you don't even have to register. Get your partner, and get started. "
Check it out and take the test.
Mojo Upgrade is an interactive sex questionnaire for couples. We present a list of sexual fantasies to both partners separately and have them indicate their level of interest. After the couple has finished the survey, we compare the answers. If you both gave a positive response to an activity, then we'll share it; if not, we don’t. That way if your partner is not game to watch midget porn with you, they won't know.
The questionnaire only takes about 10 minutes per partner.
Best of all, it's free (as in beer) and you don't even have to register. Get your partner, and get started. "
Check it out and take the test.
Wednesday, November 11, 2015
Who is / check out Mathew Boggs / Cracking the Man Code (dating coach)
"Best-selling Author, Speaker, and expert dating coach, Mat Boggs is one of the world's best at helping women understand the hearts and minds of men, create deep connection with their partner, and MANifest the relationship they want, "
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Monday, October 5, 2015
"Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship…"
"My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.
“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times. My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?”
Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.
“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times. My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?”
Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
Wednesday, September 9, 2015
"The Fence" - author unknown
"There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.” You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later."
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Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.” You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later."
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Monday, September 7, 2015
"Let me love who I love and learn from my mistakes. Let me live my life & you live yours. Stop judging my relationship because yours failed tremendously." -Wuzzam Supa
Let me love who I love and learn from my mistakes. Let me live my life & you live yours. Stop judging my relationship because yours failed tremendously.
Posted by Wuzzam Supa on Monday, September 7, 2015
Saturday, August 29, 2015
If you love someone you're not going to think they are ugly.So, this "my boyfriend or girlfriend may not be hot, but he treats me good," is stupid and if you think someone is ugly even if you love how they treat you, you're stupid. by WLI
If you love someone you're not going to think they are ugly.So, this "my boyfriend,or girlfriend may not be hot, but (s)he treats me good," is stupid and if you think someone is ugly even if you love how they treat you, you're stupid..How narcissistic is it to think that. Maybe he or she thinks that about YOU. Who are YOU to judge what is handsome,pretty or sexy anyway. Someone else will come along and see your man or lady as amazing AND sexy.and he or she will be treating THEM better than he or she treated you.
Saturday, August 15, 2015
8 Ways to Guide Him to Your Clitoris @ Cosmo
things to say to sound nicer to your partner without giving him (or her-for same sex couples) aniexty or making them feel bad.
Examples...
Say This: "You're so good at rubbing my clitoris in circular motions with your fingertips...it gets me really turned on."
Why it Works: Giving him props strokes his ego, and he'll want to live up to his rep. And if he wasn't doing it correctly before, well, you just spelled out how you like it."
See more @ Cosmo
Examples...
Say This: "You're so good at rubbing my clitoris in circular motions with your fingertips...it gets me really turned on."
Why it Works: Giving him props strokes his ego, and he'll want to live up to his rep. And if he wasn't doing it correctly before, well, you just spelled out how you like it."
See more @ Cosmo
Wednesday, August 12, 2015
Tuesday, August 4, 2015
10 Realistic Ways To Build Everlasting Love By Dr. Lynda Klau @ YourTango
"THIS is a one size fits all guide to building the right kind of relationship.
How many of us have learned how to build loving relationships? Where did we learn? At home? At school? There is an art and science to building strong relationships. These are indispensable tips, written with romantic relationships in mind, but with a little modification you can apply them to your friendships, family, and even work relationships."
1. Create a safe environment where you can trust and share openly without fear
2. Separate the facts from the feelings
3. Connect with the different parts of yourself.
4. Develop Compassion
5. Create a "we" that can house two "I's."
6. Partner, heal thyself.
7. Relish the differences between you.
8. Ask questions
9. Make time for your relationship.
10. Say the "hard things" from love.
See explanations & full article @ Your Tango
How many of us have learned how to build loving relationships? Where did we learn? At home? At school? There is an art and science to building strong relationships. These are indispensable tips, written with romantic relationships in mind, but with a little modification you can apply them to your friendships, family, and even work relationships."
1. Create a safe environment where you can trust and share openly without fear
2. Separate the facts from the feelings
3. Connect with the different parts of yourself.
4. Develop Compassion
5. Create a "we" that can house two "I's."
6. Partner, heal thyself.
7. Relish the differences between you.
8. Ask questions
9. Make time for your relationship.
10. Say the "hard things" from love.
See explanations & full article @ Your Tango
5 Ways Abandonment Issues Can Ruin Your Relationships By Johanna Lyman @ YourTango
"1. You look for flaws. When you find someone who might be a good partner, you start looking for their faults. You look for what's wrong instead of what's right. Nobody ever breaks up with you because you don't give them a chance. You're always the one to leave.
2. People think you're shy or reserved. You're hard to get to know because you don't trust people. You're afraid that if you let someone in, you'll be hurt. So you end up lonely instead.
3. You fall hard and fast, over and over again. You're always in a relationship because you don't know who to be as an individual. You're in love with the idea of love, but find it difficult to actually execute. You can't do enough for your partner, and you're a giver. You don't understand why he doesn't appreciate you.
4. You love the chase. You're really attracted to someone when you're trying to catch them, but once you're in the relationship you get bored. You withdraw emotionally, and your partner starts to think they've done something wrong. This is a common expression of abandonment issues in men.
5. You are a perfectionist. If only you get it right, you won't be rejected. Whether "it" is a work project, the way your home looks, how you dress or what your body looks like, perfectionism is a thief. It steals your happiness under the guise of preventing rejection.
If you resonate with any of these, the first step is to be gentle with yourself. Abandonment will start whispering in your ear that you don't deserve anything better and that you don't deserve to be loved. That is a lie, intended to keep you small."
See entire article@ YourTango
2. People think you're shy or reserved. You're hard to get to know because you don't trust people. You're afraid that if you let someone in, you'll be hurt. So you end up lonely instead.
3. You fall hard and fast, over and over again. You're always in a relationship because you don't know who to be as an individual. You're in love with the idea of love, but find it difficult to actually execute. You can't do enough for your partner, and you're a giver. You don't understand why he doesn't appreciate you.
4. You love the chase. You're really attracted to someone when you're trying to catch them, but once you're in the relationship you get bored. You withdraw emotionally, and your partner starts to think they've done something wrong. This is a common expression of abandonment issues in men.
5. You are a perfectionist. If only you get it right, you won't be rejected. Whether "it" is a work project, the way your home looks, how you dress or what your body looks like, perfectionism is a thief. It steals your happiness under the guise of preventing rejection.
If you resonate with any of these, the first step is to be gentle with yourself. Abandonment will start whispering in your ear that you don't deserve anything better and that you don't deserve to be loved. That is a lie, intended to keep you small."
See entire article@ YourTango
Monday, August 3, 2015
Farting In Front Of Your Boyfriend Is The Key To A Great Relationship by Alexia LaFata @ Elite Daily
"Besides being funny and natural, farts are vital to the success of any relationship. The first time you fart in front of your boyfriend or girlfriend is akin to your first great bang session, your first “I love you,” and your first child.
There’s nothing that says “You’re the one” quite like leaning to one side, squishing your face up a little bit and releasing a flow of dank hot air. I’m serious.
Farts show you’re comfortable.
Farts show playfulness.
Farts create inside jokes.
Farts show you have nothing to hide.
Farts are sexy.
I get it. You’re currently telling me that I’m insane. But hear me out for a second. What’s sexier than embracing everything – yes, even his farts — about your partner? Think about how you feel when you see your boyfriend after the gym, when his skin is glistening and when he smells like body odor and salt.Isn’t that rawness so hot because of how naturally human it is, not in spite of it?Think about how you feel when your girlfriend wears no makeup and you still think she looks beautiful."
See explanations @ Elite Daily
There’s nothing that says “You’re the one” quite like leaning to one side, squishing your face up a little bit and releasing a flow of dank hot air. I’m serious.
Farts show you’re comfortable.
Farts show playfulness.
Farts create inside jokes.
Farts show you have nothing to hide.
Farts are sexy.
I get it. You’re currently telling me that I’m insane. But hear me out for a second. What’s sexier than embracing everything – yes, even his farts — about your partner? Think about how you feel when you see your boyfriend after the gym, when his skin is glistening and when he smells like body odor and salt.Isn’t that rawness so hot because of how naturally human it is, not in spite of it?Think about how you feel when your girlfriend wears no makeup and you still think she looks beautiful."
See explanations @ Elite Daily
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Sunday, July 19, 2015
“She called those who commit suicide cowardly .....That fear is not failure. That fear is your heart, still beating, that fear is your lungs, still breathing, that fear is your bones, still ready to pick you up from the bottom and carry you to safety, that fear is your entire system rejecting the idea that you are unable to survive any longer, that fear is the primal part of your brain echoing through your nervous system just one whisper of desperation: stay. Stay. Stay."
“She called those who commit suicide cowardly and
I couldn’t breathe for a second because
In the bathtub of a hotel room, a 4.0 student broke open her veins and planted death where the skin split and lay with her head as far under the water as it could get but
the fear of the end
got too be too strong and she called for help and
it was cowardice that saved her, wasn’t it
and in the livingroom of his rich parents,
the football star sits and stares at the gun in his hands and thinks about just clicking the bullet into place
and finally getting this all over with but
he can’t stop wondering if this is really for the best, he can’t
stop the panic that rises when he thinks about the blackness,
he can’t stop the thought of making his girlfriend cry
until she collapses -
so he puts the gun down and leaves it, carries the idea of how incredibly soft he must be
if he couldn’t just do that one last thing
I am more grateful to fear than I am to any other emotion. It has stopped the untimely end of so many of my loved ones. It has been the only wall between them and a headstone. It has been proof they are unfinished - it is their body rejecting the idea that they are unworthy
I couldn’t breathe for a second because
In the bathtub of a hotel room, a 4.0 student broke open her veins and planted death where the skin split and lay with her head as far under the water as it could get but
the fear of the end
got too be too strong and she called for help and
it was cowardice that saved her, wasn’t it
and in the livingroom of his rich parents,
the football star sits and stares at the gun in his hands and thinks about just clicking the bullet into place
and finally getting this all over with but
he can’t stop wondering if this is really for the best, he can’t
stop the panic that rises when he thinks about the blackness,
he can’t stop the thought of making his girlfriend cry
until she collapses -
so he puts the gun down and leaves it, carries the idea of how incredibly soft he must be
if he couldn’t just do that one last thing
I am more grateful to fear than I am to any other emotion. It has stopped the untimely end of so many of my loved ones. It has been the only wall between them and a headstone. It has been proof they are unfinished - it is their body rejecting the idea that they are unworthy
"They say you’re crazy, Van Gogh. 'How could he cut off his ear and offer it to a whore?They forget that they’re the same. They forget that we’re all tearing our own selves apart and offering our bodies to those less than worthy,.."
"They say you’re crazy, Van Gogh. 'How could he cut off his ear
and offer it to a whore? What an odd man.'
They forget that they’re the same. They forget that we’re all tearing our own selves apart and offering our bodies to those less than worthy,
suffering the way only artists can."
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and offer it to a whore? What an odd man.'
They forget that they’re the same. They forget that we’re all tearing our own selves apart and offering our bodies to those less than worthy,
suffering the way only artists can."
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Saturday, July 18, 2015
"Fellas, women are turned on by men who help with house work..." Lerone Rocksolid White
Ladies, remember he isn't the maid either. Forget gender roles and BOTH help out with the housework.
Sunday, June 14, 2015
"Advice: Help! He Disappears, Doesn’t Call, Pops Up Every Fortnight and Gives Me a Magical Time. Is He Unavailable? Er…YEAH" My response.. this isn't true.
Not claiming she has HPD or any of the women in the comments do.
This is the article
A lot of women do this. They NEED attention all the time. Some people just do not feel like talking on the phone or emailing all the time.Plus, they may have a different "love language" than you do.
These people may need letters,notes,emails and phone calls (words of affirmation) and time together (quality time) while their man shows his love through gifts, touch and doing work around the house (acts of service). Take the test together and see if you can figure something out. Maybe he could show you more love through letters instead of doing things around the house (acts of service) and maybe you could notice the little things he does around the house (acts of service) and do things for him as well to sow your love. People love and show it differently. People need the touch and quality time together which is why the time together is so "magical" but for him, it's not his way of showing a person he loves them.
This is the article
A lot of women do this. They NEED attention all the time. Some people just do not feel like talking on the phone or emailing all the time.Plus, they may have a different "love language" than you do.
These people may need letters,notes,emails and phone calls (words of affirmation) and time together (quality time) while their man shows his love through gifts, touch and doing work around the house (acts of service). Take the test together and see if you can figure something out. Maybe he could show you more love through letters instead of doing things around the house (acts of service) and maybe you could notice the little things he does around the house (acts of service) and do things for him as well to sow your love. People love and show it differently. People need the touch and quality time together which is why the time together is so "magical" but for him, it's not his way of showing a person he loves them.
Sunday, June 7, 2015
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